What keep a man happy in a relationship?
12 Things That Make a Man Happy in a Relationship
Girls aren’t the only ones that wants to be happy in a relationship. Of course, your guy requires the incredible joy that only you can provide. In a relationship, it’s critical to make your partner happy. In fact, it’s one of the key ingredients in building a strong and long-lasting relationship. You’ve come to the correct place if you’re looking for ways to make your lover happy. To learn more, look over the list below.
1. Learn about your man’s moods.
Men, like women, can have mood swings. If you want to make your partner emotionally happy, you must learn to recognize his moods and know what to do in response to them. The more time you spend with your partner, the more you’ll understand his emotions and be able to react immediately. As you come to know your man’s moods, keep these items in mind.
2. Hug him tightly for no apparent reason.
When it comes to lovely affectionate moments, guys melt like butter. He may not always initiate it, but if you unexpectedly go up to him and embrace him hard, he’ll adore the sensation of being in his arms.
3. Don’t forget to compliment him.
Not only do girls enjoy receiving compliments, but boys do as well. Who doesn’t like to be told that they are attractive or intelligent? The idea that men are unconcerned about their appearance is a thing of the past. Compliment your lover and tell him what you enjoy about him, such as how he drives you insane or how good he looks in that white shirt. It will undoubtedly make him grin.
4. Encourage him
You must know how to stimulate your partner emotionally in order to make him happy. You can motivate him by telling him how brilliant, talented, or funny he is and by assisting him in achieving his aspirations and goals. Encourage him only if you truly believe it; you must be truthful when assisting him in moving forward in life.
5. Don’t be overly attached.
You must know how to be there for your man when he needs you and how to back off and give him space when he needs it if you want to make him emotionally happy. Clinginess entails wanting to be with him all of the time, denying him time with his friends, and checking in every fifteen seconds when he’s not around. Who likes that?
6. Indulge in Public Display of Affection.
The majority of men are unconcerned with public displays of affection. They, on the other hand, adore it when their sultry girlfriend clutches their arm or kisses them on the cheek in public.
7. Tell and demonstrate your love for him.
It’s not difficult to express your affection for him, and it’s even easier to demonstrate your admiration for him. So express your affection by saying «I love you,» or by making small gestures such as writing him nice notes or cooking for him.
8. Pay attention to him.
It’s not always a good idea to take your guy for granted. Give him your whole attention and make him feel loved instead. Get off your phone and pay attention to what he has to say. Give him the time and attention he deserves since every minute you spend with him is crucial.
9. Make no attempt to make him feel insecure.
Guys despise being insecure. Instead of acknowledging or accepting their insecurity, they will become irritable or avoid you. It’s a male trait. If you don’t make a guy feel uneasy, he’ll adore you even more.
10. Be open and honest with him.
One of the finest ways to make your guy happy is to be honest, no matter how difficult it is. Always be honest with him and don’t keep secrets from him. You will not only make him happy, but you will also experience the same happiness he does since he will be honest with you.
11. Let him know you believe in him.
Have believe in your boyfriend and express your confidence in him. When a man realizes his lady trusts him, he becomes more devoted to her and takes more steps to ensure her happiness.
12. Give him space
Give your guy his space if you want to make him happy. Every day, men require time alone to recharge their batteries.
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5 Things That You Can Do To Keep Your Man Happy And Keeping Him Wanting More
If there is one thing that men love it’s external validation that they are all that. So much of how men connect with the world is about what is external vs. internal – how they look, how they are perceived, how successful the world thinks they are vs. how they are thinking and feeling. And this is okay. It’s different from women and it’s okay.
Let your man know that he makes you laugh. And laugh often. You are giving him the ultimate validation that he is being appreciated by you, the woman he loves. And the smile that you give him with that laugh? It will make him weak in the knees. And putty in your hands.
Putty is good…
2. Be thankful when he gives.
Men are at their best when they are giving. It’s in their nature. When they give they take care of those they love and this is a primal need for them.
It’s hard for modern men to give because it’s hard for modern women to receive. And often times, when a man does give to a woman she freezes. Either she ignores the giving or complaints that it’s not enough or acts in a way that implies that she doesn’t deserve it.
I have a client whose husband used to buy her jewelry because he knew that she loved it. And she did. Unfortunately, everything he bought her wasn’t to her taste. She would thank him sweetly but then return it for something that she wanted. And every time she did this she hurt him. So much so that eventually he stopped buying her jewelry. And that didn’t make anyone happy.
So be open to your man giving to you, big or small. And thank him for it. You will be glad you did and he will be happy.
3. Don’t be too helpful.
Women are, by nature, caregivers. We long to take care of anyone and everyone, often to the point that we stop doing anything for ourselves and we get resentful and bitter about it. Especially with our spouses.
But men don’t want that! They don’t want us to be TOO helpful.
Don’t get me wrong. Men love having their socks picked up and their laundry done for them. They like not having to buy Christmas presents for the extended family or wipe down the sink. But they do want to feel like they can take of themselves. That they are a contributing member of a couple. Maybe even sometimes the guy in charge.
So let him do his thing. Take care of himself. And maybe even take care of you for a change.
Oh, and one more thing – did you know that when you baby your husband too much he starts to look at you as he does his mother. Do you want him to start equating you with his mother? I didn’t think so.
4. Be a girl.
I know I know. How can I say that in this modern world? Men and women are equal. Women can do everything that men can do and do some of it even better. We are not soft. We are steel. We aren’t going to act like girls.
I get it. But one thing that we can’t ignore is human nature. It is in our biology that men are masculine and women feminine. We each have standard accompanying traits. Men are strong and protective. Women are soft and nurturing. And, no matter what the world says, men and women react to each others’ strength and softness.
So let yourself be a little girlish. Let yourself be soft around your man. Wear dresses. Speak softly. Laugh at his jokes. Make him feel like you need him. Make him feel like a man.
5. Let him know when he finds your ON button.
What do I mean by that? Here is an example:
My ex-husband and I had a “no power cord” rule for all gift-giving occasions. He could not buy me anything that included a power cord. One year, for Mother’s Day, he took a risk and bought me a garage door opener. I LOVED it. I loved it so much that that night he got lucky.
He was delighted and amazed when he realized that he had the ability to make me so happy that he could flip my switch. From then on he worked diligently to find things that he could do that would activate my ON button.
And really, that was a win-win situation for both of us.